解:$(1)CD=2,$$HL=4,$$OA=\sqrt{41},$$OF=2 \sqrt{41},$
$BE=\sqrt{5},$$GM=2 \sqrt{5}$
$(2) \frac {CD}{HL}=\frac {1}{2},$$\frac {OA}{OF}=\frac {1}{2},$$\frac {BE}{GM}=\frac {1}{2} $
相等
$ (3)\frac {OE}{OM}=\frac {BC}{GH}=\frac {BD}{GL}$