解:$(1)S_{阴影}=S_{长方形}-S_{圆}×\frac {1}{4}×4$
$=2xy-π×\frac {y^2}4×\frac {1}{4}×4$
$=(2xy-\frac {πy^2}{4})\mathrm {m^2}$
故剩余铁皮的面积是$(2xy-\frac {πy^2}{4})\mathrm {m^2}$
$(2)$当$x=6$,$y=8$时,
$S_{剩余}=2xy- \frac {πy^2}{4}≈2×6×8-50.24=45.76(m²)$
$ $故剩余铁皮的面积是$45.76m²$