解:
(1)由题意,得$(2x - a)(3x + b)=6x^{2}+2bx-3ax - ab=6x^{2}+(2b - 3a)x - ab = 6x^{2}+11x - 10,$$(2x + a)(x + b)=2x^{2}+2bx+ax + ab=2x^{2}+(2b + a)x + ab = 2x^{2}-9x + 10.$
所以$\begin{cases}2b - 3a = 11\\2b + a = - 9\end{cases},$
用$2b - 3a = 11$减去$2b + a = - 9$得:
$\begin{aligned}(2b - 3a)-(2b + a)&=11-(-9)\\2b - 3a - 2b - a&=11 + 9\\-4a&=20\\a&=-5\end{aligned}$
把$a = - 5$代入$2b + a = - 9$得:$2b-5=-9,$$2b=-4,$$b = - 2.$
(2)$(2x - 5)(3x - 2)=6x^{2}-4x-15x + 10=6x^{2}-19x + 10.$