解:联立方程组$ \{\begin{array}{l}2 x+5 y=-6\\3 x-5 y=16\end{array} ,$解得$ \{\begin{array}{l}x=2\\y=-2\end{array} $
把$ \{\begin{array}{l}x=2\\y=-2\end{array}$代入方程组$ \{\begin{array}{l}a x-b y=-4\\b x+a y=-8\end{array} $得$ \{\begin{array}{l}2\ \mathrm {a}+2\ \mathrm {b}=-4\\2\ \mathrm {b}-2\ \mathrm {a}=-8\end{array} $
解得$ \{\begin{array}{l}a=1\\b=-3\end{array}$
∴$(2\ \mathrm {a}+b)^{2023}=(2 ×1-3)^{2023}= (-1)^{2023}=-1$