$ \begin{aligned}解:(1)原式&=2ax²+4ax-6x-12-x²-b \\ &=(2a-1)x²+ (4a-6)x+(-12-b) \\ \end{aligned}$
$∵代数式(ax-3)(2x+4)-x²-b化简后,不含有x$
$项和常数项$
$∴2a-1=0,-12-b=0$
$∴a=\frac{1}{2},b=-12.$
$(2)∵a= \frac{1}{2},b=-12$
$∴(b-a)(-a-b)+(-a-b)²-a(2a+b)$
$=a²- b²+a²+2ab+b²-2a²-ab$
$=ab$
$= \frac{1}{2} ×(-12)$
$=-6.$