解: (1)由题意,得月销售量为$500-10\times(65 - 60)=450(kg),$所以月销售利润为$(65 - 50)\times450 = 6750$(元)。
(2)因为月销售成本不超过$12000$元,所以月销售量不超过$12000\div50 = 240(kg)。$设该水产品每千克售价应定为$x$元。由题意,得$(x - 50)[500-10(x - 60)]=8000。$
$\begin{aligned}(x - 50)(500-10x + 600)&=8000\\(x - 50)(1100-10x)&=8000\\1100x-10x^{2}-55000 + 500x&=8000\\-10x^{2}+1600x-63000&=0\\x^{2}-160x + 6300&=0\end{aligned}$
解得$x_{1}=70,$$x_{2}=90。$当$x = 70$时,月销售量为$500-10\times(70 - 60)=400(kg),$不合题意,舍去;当$x = 90$时,月销售量为$500-10\times(90 - 60)=200(kg),$符合题意。故该水产品每千克售价应定为$90$元。